Yes people, this is a topic! Believe it or not, I’ve had trouble about this. It took me a while to put on my head scarf in front of bae.
I think for me it was a struggle at first because I wanted him to think that I was always beautiful, even while I slept. Another reason was, I wanted to look sexy if we ever “got it on” in the middle of the night 😉 I mean who wants to “get it on” with a grandma bonnet on?!
It wasn’t until he told me, “baby you would look gorgeous with or without your headscarf on. I’d rather see all of this now then be surprised when we get married” lol (kinda romantic right lol ) But the funniest thing was when he pulled out his Durag and said “well I guess I can wear mines too!” Lolol So see, guys understand because some wear things on their heads at night to keep their waves in tack!
Now you may have those guys that hate when their ladies wear bonnets and head scarves. Unless they pay for your hair do’s, then I wouldn’t worry about it. Now, if you are still worried about, then ya’ll will just have to comprise. He’s going to have to understand that you need to at least wear it while you sleep. Now if ya’ll decide to have sex in the middle of the night, then just throw it off during that time and put it back on after. Problem solved!
All jokes aside, if he likes you he’s not going to care what you look like at night. Even though I may have felt uncomfortable with my head scarf on around my dude, he honestly didn’t care and was just happy I was laying beside him. Shoot, if they’re a REAL guy, they actually will remind you to put your head scarf on at night so you won’t mess up your hair he paid for! Lol
When do you all think is the perfect time to pull out your hair bonnet / hair scarf ?!