Would it be an issue if the guy/girl you were in a relationship with still had their exes name tatted on them ?
People tattoo their body with things that have meaning to them. Tattoos can be very personal. Especially when you’re in love, at the time you may think that you will be with that person forever and you think that tattooing their name on your body will prove how loyal you are to them.
Butttttttt lets be real people. You can love someone one day and the next day , they can leave you for a big booty Instagram model -_- . Then you’re stuck with a heartbreak and their name on your chest that you have to look at every day when you are putting on your clothes. Smh…welp!
When my boyfriend and I first started dating, he had his exes name tatted on him. It didn’t bother me at first because we just started to date and he was previously married. But as time went on and we became more serious, I wasn’t trying to look at another woman’s name on my mans body EVERY SINGLE DAY ! Ugh! -_- Plus, it was time to move on and let the past be the past.
His friends were trying to convince him that I shouldn’t try to make him alter his body and he should wait until he’s ready. Another argument was that , it’s not that serious because it’s just ink .-_- But guess what , your friends aren’t the ones in your relationship;) But honestly , I don’t know any female that would be okay with another woman’s name on their guys body .
I knew that tattoo had meaning and everytime he looked at that tattoo, it would remind him of her. Everytime I look at the tattoo, it’s also going to remind me of her and bring up conversations about his past.
After debate and reconciliation, he told me that he would do whatever it took to move forward with me and he got it covered up !!!
Honestly, if they are your ex then it shouldn’t be a problem with getting their name covered up! If you’re trying to move forward with someone then it shouldn’t be a problem with getting rid of your past completely. (especially if they didn’t have any kids together) I don’t think anyone would be okay with their man having their exes name tatted on them.
So what do you think ?
Would it be an issue if the guy /girl you were in a relationship with still had their exes name tatted on them ?!