It Sounds crazy right?! You would think we would want a nice guy! Especially considering the type of “new age men” that we come across nowadays. Nice guys are very rare at this day and age. They say, if you come across a nice guy then we should keep them.
But I say, there may be two different reasons why we don’t want to deal with nice guys:
1. We tend to find a lot of excuses for the guys we ARENT REALLY ATTRACTED TO. It could be their physical appearance, them being boring or anything that is throwing them off for you that makes them unattractive…and although they could be great guys, we quickly put them in the friend zone . So the “Good morning” text every day or doing nice gestures can sometimes annoy us (horrible right? Lol) . I’ve dated nice guys that I didn’t have an attraction too and everything would’ve been perfect if I could just bring myself to lust for them (ugh). However, some I’ve had success with and just grew into liking them.
2. We don’t want anyone that we can run over. Some woman don’t want a “yes” man all of the time (unless you’re buying us things 🙂 ) Men, I understand that you may really like a woman and you just want to please her. That’s totally fine. Being nice and a gentleman is okay in my book. But have a little backbone. We think it’s sexy.
One thing I’ve learned, just because everyone is telling you he’s a great catch or a nice guy doesn’t necessarily mean you have to be compatible. There’s a match for everyone and don’t let anyone convince you that you have to settle for someone that you simply just don’t want. Live for you and whatever makes you happy. When the right guy comes along you will know !
What are your thoughts?!