There are times when we can let our anger get the best of us. While in “the heat of the moment”, things can really pop off and before you know it, you have done or said something you can’t take back -_-
This is why it is very important to THINK before you DO.
Now, if you plan on STAYING with your partner, here are some things we shouldn’t do when we are mad:
1: Don’t Post Everything on Social Media-I’m guilty of doing this so trust me, I get it. Sometimes we want to vent…especially if you see your partner has been making sublimenal messages on social media about you ! Now, you feel like you have to defend yourself ( Especially if they have over 1000 followers lol ) and write something too. Don’tttt do it ! Every action doesn’t need to have a reaction. Once it’s out there , it’s no turning back. Everyone doesn’t need to know your business. When people are in your business, it can get messy! It then makes you look real crazy when you’re back with them after you wrote those crazy and nasty things about them on social media 🙂
2.Leak Nudes- I would never do this but just incase anything was to ever pop off, this is one of the reasons why I never send a nude with my face in them. lol Leaking nudes are not only childish and petty but you also ruined your chances of ever getting another nude sent to you from ANYONE…and second, it just makes you look lame and bitter.
3. Tell Your Family About Ya’ll Issues –Your family is overly protective over you . You can tell them all of the great things your partner does but as soon as you start telling them all of the negative things yall go through , they will never forget that. You can forget about them liking your partner anymore. If you plan on staying with your partner, and you want to vent, pick and choose the most understanding family member that won’t judge or tell all of your relationship business.
4. Call Your Ex Or An Opposite Sex – This is a very bad idea! Sometimes, we get an urge and have temptations to mess with someone else because our partner makes us mad. We also tend to pillow talk to them about our relationship. Please don’t get tempted because once that door is open you never know what kind of mess you will be in. It’s always a bad look when an outside person of the opposite sex can tell your girl/dude what they know about y’alls relationship. Boy boy boy … this will literally drive me up the roof and also a really good way to get you cut alllll the way off !!!
5. Say Things You Don’t Mean- During an argument we can tend to hit below the belt and say a lot of things we really don’t mean. But trust me when I say this , I remember everythinggggggg my partner says during an argument and I’m sure your partner will too ! It’s very hard to take back what you said after it’s been said. Once those words are out, you CAN’T take them back. If you feel like you are about to take it there …. just walk away.
What are some other things you shouldn’t do if you’re mad at your partner ?! Comment below !