For those of you that aren’t hip to the word “finesse” … let me break it down to you . Finessing is simply when someone out plays you to get what they want.
I know sometimes when we really like someone we can be a little oblivious to what’s going on. They ask you for one little favor, then the next thing you know, the favors are getting bigger and bigger.
So instead of trying to figure out if they genuinely like you, let me help you out so that you can avoid getting played!
5 Signs that you are being finessed:
1. They make you feel guilty or uncomfortable about saying the word “NO”- They often tend to manipulate or trick you into feeling guilty when they don’t get their way.
2.They are EXTRA nice and attentive all of a sudden– When you answer the phone and find yourself saying ” Well ….. Hey Stranger “… then something is about to be asked of you.
3. Just before you are about give up on them, they call you and want to hang out..to keep you reeled in- They do just enough so that you won’t go anywhere…just to keep you on their roster if they ever need something that will benefit them.
4.They ask to go out to eat and surprisingly forgets their wallet- Sometimes people just want a free meal …. now if they get the meal to go…then you really know ! Lol
5. They never give you anything in return- If you’re never getting anything in return and you’re always the giver …. then something is wrong.
What are some other signs that can help you with knowing if someone is trying to finesse you ?! Comment below